Debunking Common Myths About Family Law Mediation

Over the years, family law mediation has grown in popularity. This form of alternative dispute resolution allows people to resolve disputes without the stress, high cost, or delays of going to court. However, despite its benefits, several myths about mediation continue to cause misunderstandings and discourage people from considering it. At Darla K. Snead, P.L., we are committed to helping you understand the truth about mediation so you can make informed decisions during challenging times.

Below, we debunk some of the most common myths about family law mediation.

Myth #1: Mediation Is Only for People Going Through a Divorce

Often, people assume that mediation is only for people going through a divorce. While mediation can be highly beneficial to those going through a divorce, it’s not only meant for divorcing couples. Its scope extends beyond divorce cases. Mediation can help resolve various family law-related disputes, including child support and timesharing issues.

Myth #2: Mediation Always Leads to Compromise That Favors the Other Side

Some people hesitate to try mediation because they fear they will be forced into agreeing to terms that only benefit the other party. But mediation is not about forcing unfair compromises. Instead, it is about working together to find mutually agreeable solutions. Mediation offers a safe and respectful environment where you can express your needs, concerns, and preferences. The mediator will help you explore all your options and make the final decision.

Myth #3: Mediators Decide the Outcome

Another common misconception is that mediators act like judges and can make binding decisions. This is not true. Mediators do not make the final decision like a judge. Their job is to guide conversations and help the parties reach a mutually agreeable solution.

Myth#4: Mediation Is Only for People Who Get Along

Many people assume that mediation cannot work if the parties don’t see eye to eye. But this is inaccurate. Mediation is designed to help individuals work through disagreements. Mediators are trained to guide discussions and help parties communicate more effectively so they can find solutions. However, both parties must be willing to participate in mediation.

Myth #5: Mediators Take Sides

Some people worry that the mediator might favor the other party over them, especially if the other party is more dominant or outspoken. However, mediators are neutral third parties whose work is to ensure that both parties are heard equally.

But this is not to say that cases of mediators taking sides are unheard of. Some mediators lose their neutrality. If you ever feel the mediator is siding with the other party, you have the right to speak up, pause the session, or even stop the mediation.

Myth #6: Mediation Is a Lengthy and Costly Process

While mediation is not free, it is usually less costly than going to court. Mediation avoids the need for extensive legal representation and associated attorney fees and helps avoid many of the expenses related to court proceedings. And while the duration of mediation depends on the complexity of the issues at hand, it is usually completed within a few sessions.

Contact a Mediation Lawyer Today

If you are considering mediation, contact an experienced mediation lawyer at Darla K. Snead, P.L., for expert advice and support.