What To Expect in a Virtual Divorce Mediation: A Brief Step-by-Step Guide
The process of getting a divorce has evolved over the years. Today, not only can you get divorced without going to court, but you can get divorced without having to leave the house. Divorcing couples can resolve their divorce-related issues through virtual divorce mediation. However, the idea of a virtual divorce mediation may seem daunting to some, especially those who are not familiar with the mediation process. Knowing what to expect in a virtual divorce mediation can help create a sense of comfort around the process.
What Is Virtual Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation involves the use of a neutral third party (the mediator). This trained professional is responsible for helping the divorcing couple communicate, negotiate, and reach agreements on key issues like property division, alimony, and child-related issues (if applicable). So, virtual divorce mediation involves a divorcing couple using the internet and video conferencing to work with a mediator to reach a mutually acceptable agreement on the divorce terms.
What To Expect During a Virtual Divorce Mediation
The virtual divorce mediation process is different for each mediator and couple. However, here are the most commonly involved steps;
- Preparation
Virtual divorce mediation begins long before you and your spouse log into your online meeting. The mediator may schedule an individual or joint pre-mediation call, where they;
- explain the process
- verify you have the necessary technology
- provide instructions on how to access the video conferencing platform
- provide necessary information or documents for the session
- The Introduction
Once you log in to the virtual session, the mediator will introduce themselves, outline the process, lay down the rules, and set expectations. This introduction will give you an opportunity to know the mediator better and get comfortable with the process.
- Opening Statements
After the introduction, you and your spouse will get a chance to make opening statements. This is your opportunity to present your issues and concerns to the mediator. Opening statements will allow your mediator to understand you better and give your spouse a chance to hear you.
- Agenda Building
During a joint session, the mediator will help you and your spouse identify and agree on the issues that need to be resolved. Common agendas in Florida divorce cases include;
- Property division
- Alimony
- Parenting plan
- Child support
- Caucuses
If at any point, emotions run high or the mediator feels a break is necessary, they can put one party in a breakout room and speak to the other one-on-one. These private meetings are called caucuses. Caucus allows you to speak openly, as things discussed during caucus are kept confidential.
- Negotiation
During the negotiation stage, the mediator will help you and your spouse explore creative solutions and compromise where possible.
- Reaching an Agreement
If an agreement is reached, the mediator will prepare a written agreement, which you will sign electronically. The agreement will then be submitted to the court for approval.
If no agreement is reached, your case may proceed to trial.
Benefits of Virtual Divorce Mediation
Virtual divorce mediation offers several benefits, including;
- Convenience
- Cost savings
- Time saving
- Privacy
- Flexibility
Contact a Mediation Attorney
If you have questions or need help determining if divorce mediation is the best option for you, contact our mediation attorney, Darla K. Snead, P.L.
